I have a new post up on the Washington Jewish Week blog Young, Single and Jewish, titled "Dating the Chosen." I wonder whatever it could be about?
Here's a snippet:
"J-Date is probably the biggest contribution to the Jewish dating scene since Manischewitz spritzers, and it has vastly changed the way in which I date.Yes, I'm on J-Date and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Read the rest here.
Yes, I admit it. I’m on J-Date.
I finally took the plunge and bought a membership about a year ago per my mother’s suggestion (surprise, surprise) following a string of non-Jewish boyfriends. I had decided that for reasons both practical and emotional, I would try to limit my dating pool to Jewish men. However, I found little success with the traditional mixers and events. For whatever reason, and perhaps my findings were skewed, men at these events tended to fall into one of three categories: 1) the men itchin’ to get a’hitchin’, 2) the skeevy 35-year-olds chasing women nearly a decade their junior, or 3) the chronically awkward ‘repeat offenders,’ so called because of the astounding number of singles events they attend. "












1 comments:
interweb dating is just as complicated as "live-action" dating with one addendum: you can't meet someone's id online, no matter how hard you try. the superego might make an appearance somehow and way with the spotlight ever vigilantly focused on the persons ego.
that hardest part about online dating for me is the counterpart's acceptance of a single attribute being a deal breaker. at a bar or a mixer it's easier to get away without having to show your spots or break someones heart.
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